Are blessers Relevent?
The word blesser became famous after many women started posting pictures of themselves drinking expensive champagne and wearing expensive weaves. One might ask themselves, who pays for all these expenses. The word has been that rich men spend on these women in exchange for sex whether they are married or not.
Many people were disgusted by such activities and said that this is modern day prostition.
Young and middle aged women need to be taught that it is possible to live a happy life without having a blesser by your side to pay for all your expenses.
Link:enca.com/south-africa/the-blesser-explainer
Women must be educated so that they know that there are two things that could bring happiness into their lives and those are Independence and Education.
ReplyDeleteI also don't see the need for a blesser when one can flourish independently.
ReplyDeleteThere is no need for a blesser but young girls have convinced themselves that having a blesser is the new "norm" and are used to having expensive things and looking good.
ReplyDeleteWell I don't know how I feel about a blesser hey. Life has just become so tough for young black girls and we are constantly expected to uphold this beauty. I mean not all of us have the funds and education to be accepted into society. So I understand when they go find men who are willing and able to give them what they want and need. No one forces them to do so... And whatever they do behind closed doors is none of our business. Everyone should do what they feel will make them happy. And if that means getting a blesser... then get one.
ReplyDeleteWell for me i really don't think that there's a need for a blesser. Girls all they want is money and have expensive things that they wish to have but now it looks like it a fashion to have a blesser.
ReplyDeleteI'm not saying it's a good thing to get a blesser but sometimes women are forced by difficult situations, they'll need that money to support their families and to have a suitable lifestyle
ReplyDeleteAll I'm saying is that these girls enter these relationships knowing exactly what they are. There as society we should not judge other people by our standards because we don't know what they are facing
ReplyDeleteSome people get blessers because they want to be on the same page as their friends not knowing what they put their selves in to, as a person you have to be independent and try to choose friends that are similar to you.
ReplyDeleteWe come from different backgrounds so when we leave home to study we feel the pressure to look beautiful, fit in and all other sort of things. Everyone chooses how to deal with the pressure, so if they see a blesser as the easiest way out who are we to judge!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteSometimes this rich men want nothing in return from these women but company, they are rich and can afford anything they want so spoiling these women makes them feel good knowing that they get appreciated for what they do.
ReplyDeleteI don't even understand why an old man would date a young woman old like he's own daughter
DeleteBlessers are the reason someone kids do not have both parents to give them proper love, marriage divorces are increasing .
ReplyDeleteWe must not judge those girls that are having so called blessers by their side because it might happen that those young girls are depending on that blesser for all thier needs
ReplyDeleteBut this what they are doing is unjustifiable
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